• Yell, Kick, & Scream - This may seem obvious, but many children freeze when they are grabbed by strangers. Kidnappers want children to go along quietly. Yell - "This person is a stranger!" Kick - kidnapper's foot, groin, or knee. Scream.
  • Area Code & Phone Number - Make sure your child knows your area code and phone number. Does your child know how to make a collect call or dial in case of an emergency? Teach your child not to give your phone number or address to strangers.
  • Buddy System - A child alone is an easy target. Encourage your children to use the buddy system and to watch out for each other.
  • Current Photos & Records - Get photos taken every 6 months of your children and keep a photo on your person at all times. Fingerprints should be taken by a law enforcement, (TPD can assist you. More info here). Copies of their dental and medical records are a must.
  • Lure Tactics - " I have lost my puppy. Will you help me find him?" "I'll give you $10 if you'll help me put this in the car." Parents, teach your children how to respond to these people. It is best to ignore them, avoid any conversation, and run.
  • Family Code Word - Parents, a code word is a lock and key for your child. "Your Mom and Dad have been in a car wreck. You need come with me right now!" Child: " What is the code word?" If they don't know it then child doesn't go. The child runs away from that person and tells whomever is responsible for them--teacher or parent--what happened. Get a description of the perpetrator if possible.
  • Separation Plan - Teach your children to go to a cashier or ticket booth if they are separated from you while at a mall, amusement park, or any place you travel.
  • Check Route to School - The route to school should be established by a parent and under no circumstances should the child deviate from that route. Avoid alleys, etc.
  • Notify School - Make sure the school will notify you if your child does not arrive at school. Let the principal know who is authorized to pick up your child.
  • Communication - Keep good communication lines open with your children.
  • Neighbors - Organize a Neighborhood Watch group and participate in a safe home program.
  • Child's Clothes - Make a mental note of what your child wears every day! Do not put your child's name on the outside of the clothing because it allows a stranger to become verbally intimate with your child. Put the name on inside of clothes.